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4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship

2026-05-18 · 48 min · 22 entities

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Asserted relationships

  • → references Arthur C Brooks person
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://linkedin.com/in/arthur-c-brooks/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0
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    liness. In this episode of Office Hours , I turn to Aristotle and his work, the Nicomachean Ethics , to ask an age-old question: what makes a good friend? I’ll explore Aristotle’
  • → hosted by Arthur Brooks person
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    Feed author/publisher: Arthur Brooks
  • → discusses Health & Fitness concept
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    Feed category: Health & Fitness
  • → discusses Mental Health person
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    Feed category: Mental Health
  • → references Record website
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2014-05698-001
  • → references Arthurbrooks website
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://noblemobile.com/arthurbrooks%E2%81%A0
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://instagram.com/arthurcbrooks/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0
  • → references The Pursuit of Happiness website
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://thefp.com/s/the-pursuit-of-happiness-with-arthur
  • → references Hermit Solitude Benefits Happiness person
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2024/07/hermit-solitude-benefits-happiness/678955
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://the-independent.com/life-style/friends-adults-american-how-to-friendship-difficulty-a8906861.html

Entities found in this episode

websites 10

  • mentioned Record website
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2014-05698-001
  • mentioned Arthurbrooks website
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://noblemobile.com/arthurbrooks%E2%81%A0
  • mentioned Arthurcbrooks website
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://instagram.com/arthurcbrooks/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0
  • mentioned The Pursuit of Happiness website
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://thefp.com/s/the-pursuit-of-happiness-with-arthur
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://the-independent.com/life-style/friends-adults-american-how-to-friendship-difficulty-a8906861.html
  • references Record website
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2014-05698-001
  • references Arthurbrooks website
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://noblemobile.com/arthurbrooks%E2%81%A0
  • references Arthurcbrooks website
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://instagram.com/arthurcbrooks/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0
  • references The Pursuit of Happiness website
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://thefp.com/s/the-pursuit-of-happiness-with-arthur
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://the-independent.com/life-style/friends-adults-american-how-to-friendship-difficulty-a8906861.html

persons 8

  • mentioned Arthur C Brooks person
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://linkedin.com/in/arthur-c-brooks/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0
  • references Arthur C Brooks person
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://linkedin.com/in/arthur-c-brooks/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0
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    Feed author/publisher: Arthur Brooks
  • hosted by Arthur Brooks person
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    Feed author/publisher: Arthur Brooks
  • mentioned Mental Health person
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    Feed category: Mental Health
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2024/07/hermit-solitude-benefits-happiness/678955
  • discusses Mental Health person
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    Feed category: Mental Health
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    Link in episode "4 Ways to Get Better at Friendship": https://theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2024/07/hermit-solitude-benefits-happiness/678955

books 2

  • mentioned Nicomachean Ethics book
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    liness. In this episode of Office Hours , I turn to Aristotle and his work, the Nicomachean Ethics , to ask an age-old question: what makes a good friend? I’ll explore Aristotle’
  • references Nicomachean Ethics book
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    liness. In this episode of Office Hours , I turn to Aristotle and his work, the Nicomachean Ethics , to ask an age-old question: what makes a good friend? I’ll explore Aristotle’

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  • mentioned Health & Fitness concept
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    Feed category: Health & Fitness
  • discusses Health & Fitness concept
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Episode description as stored
We spend much of our lives building our careers. We chase success, recognition, and expansive networks—yet despite all of it, many of us still experience a quiet, persistent loneliness. In this episode of Office Hours , I turn to Aristotle and his work, the Nicomachean Ethics , to ask an age-old question: what makes a good friend? I’ll explore Aristotle’s three types of friendship, and suggest something that sounds counterintuitive: the best of friends are perfectly useless. I also share four practical ways to deepen the friendships you already have, and cultivate more of these useless relationships that create real meaning, deeper happiness, and a life well lived. — Brought to you by: • ⁠ Noble Mobile ⁠ —With Noble, there is only one plan: The No-Bull Plan. It’s simple. It’s transparent. And if you use less data, you get cash back. Get an exclusive offer at: ⁠https://noblemobile.com/arthurbrooks⁠ — Where to find Arthur Brooks:  • Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://arthurbrooks.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ • In-person Retreats: ⁠https://retreats.arthurbrooks.com/⁠ • Newsletter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.arthurbrooks.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ • X: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/arthurbrooks⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ • Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/arthurcbrooks/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ • Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ArthurBrooks/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ • YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGuyFRjJQFGCKzfHTBvWM6A⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ • LinkedIn: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/arthur-c-brooks/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ • Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠officehours@arthurbrooks.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Timestamps: (00:00) Intro (06:32) Why close friendships are essential to happiness (11:42) What a healthy friendship ecosystem looks like  (14:54) Aristotle’s three types of friendship (23:57) Real friends vs. deal friends (31:17) Friendship step #1: Give yourself a friendship checkup (32:39) Friendship step #2: Identify the people who truly know you (35:06) Friendship step #3: Go deep or go home (38:24) Friendship step #4: Make more friends that you don’t need (41:32) Q&A: Adjusting to home after a year abroad  (44:12) Q&A: Building better habits — Referenced: • The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness : themeaningofyourlife.com • Meaning Membership: https://hub.arthurbrooks.com/the-meaning-membership   • Arthur’s newsletter: https://www.arthurbrooks.com/newsletter   • The Happiness Scale: https://learn.arthurbrooks.com/the-happiness-scale   • The Pursuit of Happiness with Arthur Brooks : https://www.thefp.com/s/the-pursuit-of-happiness-with-arthur • Why You Should Want to Be Alone: https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2024/07/hermit-solitude-benefits-happiness/678955 • I Matter to My Friend, Therefore I am Happy: Friendship, Mattering, and Happiness: https://experts.nau.edu/en/publications/i-matter-to-my-friend-therefore-i-am-happy-friendship-mattering-a • Friendship and personality as predictors of happiness:  https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10902-006-9012-7   •The average American has three best friends: https://www.the-independent.com/life-style/friends-adults-american-how-to-friendship-difficulty-a8906861.html   • Social Support, Social Strain, Loneliness, and Well-Being Among Older Adults: An Analysis of the Health and Retirement Study: https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2014-05698-001 • ...References continued at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.arthurbrooks.com/office-hours⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Production and marketing by ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://penname.co/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠.